Want your opinion

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Genuinely interested in others opinions here

If you started seeing a guy who a month in told you that he was moving overseas in 6 months time, would you call it a day, or see where thing lead

(assume you would not be in any position to go with him and might end up very hurt 6 months down the line)

My first thought would be that he's lying and trying to break up!

I'd call it a day, unless six months companionship is all you need.

I think I'd tell him to go and be free while you are away and vice versa and keep in touch if you both want and see how things pan out. After a month I wouldn't be committing myself to anything or expect someone else too.

He wants a six month affair. Is possibly on secondment and goes home then.

I wouldn’t believe him sorry, I’d think he has a wife/long term partner and is saying this so he can have his fun and then move on

Sounds a bit opportunistic like maybe he wants six months no strings if that's not what you want then say goodbye sooner rather than later before you end up feeling completely used

I'd give it a miss. Why risk getting attached to him.

If he's moving full time overseas and you'd not be interested in following I'd call time.

How did you meet?

I’d think he was spineless and can’t say I’m ending it directly

Depends what you want from the relationship

Would you happy to consider it like. Holiday romance ? If not, drop him.

I'd call it a day. I'd also wonder if he was telling me exactly so that I would call it a day. Maybe he wants to stop seeing you and is too gutless to tell you so putting the onus on you by making up a story about moving abroad.