Last night me and my partner had been out drinking, we got in at around 4am. He’d been in an aggressive mood all night because he cannot tolerate alcohol.. not even a bit. He’s not an alcoholic or anything just whenever he has a drink which is not often, he gets very aggressive and standoffish. He ended up assaulting this bloke in the middle of the nightclub so I took him out. Anyway.. we get home and have sex, I consented..if anything I instigated it but I fell asleep after he cummed. I woke up in a bit of a daze and all hazey because I was still drunk and I remember feeling baby oil being poured all over me and he had his phone light on and was watching his penis going in and out and watching his fingers go in me etc. I kept stirring and I asked him what are you doing and he said “you asked me to do it” -I didn’t I know I didn’t. He’s never done anything like that before and we both was realllllly horny when we come home. We have been together 4 years and have a child together but I couldn’t help but find it a bit weird that he deliberately had his flashlight on so he could see him doing it whilst I was sleeping.