I split up with my DH due to his infidelity in November. I was upset but knew it was the right thing and was feeling excited about the future.
About a month post split I slept with a kind of friend. I've known him socially for over 10 years though we never really spoke much, it was mainly on group nights out that we crossed paths. I've always found him very attractive but he is very much a ladies man and sleeps around a lot.
We agreed to sleep with each other casually until his work contract finished at the end of Feb and he went back to Ireland (where he's originally from) He had been planning to move back for some time.
He's now gone and I'm feeling heartbroken. I feel we really connected and I had such a great time with him. I can't stop crying.
I know it was too fast after my split and that we agreed it would be casual by I can't help how I'm feeling. I can't stop thinking about him and it's driving me crazy.
What I need advice on is whether you think I'm just vulnerable and messed up after my marriage split and just need to forget about him. Or should I try to maintain contact and maybe go visit him? He mentioned me going over to see him but I'm not sure that's a good idea. Plus mayb I was just sex to him and he will move on instantly.
Help.