So I think deep down I am looking more for support than advice, but have to get this off my chest! Sorry for the length in advance 
Met my bf on a dating app 18 months ago; we always lived in different countries but made an effort to see each other at least every 3 weeks. Things were going really well and I believed that eventually we would end up together. Last July we went on a long holiday together and things were a bit 'off', I got the feeling he had lost interest or was entering the usual commitment fear stage that most men these days seem to have 
. Anyway, during that holiday I got pregnant. I told him the next time we were together, when I was 6 weeks. He flipped out, told me to get an abortion, we had the worst fight of our relationship. I knew I wanted the baby and told him he didn't have to be involved (perhaps a selfish decision but I couldn't face the thought of an abortion -- I am the one who would live with that guilt the rest of my life). Obviously we barely knew each other and I live in a country where he doesn't speak the language so getting a job would be tough.
Things continued to be pretty bad, we argued a lot over the next few months -- sometimes he would go weeks without speaking to me. I grew to resent him and I fully believe that I can manage this pregnancy and child alone (I'm now 33 weeks), with the support of my great family and friends. But then suddenly a few weeks ago he called and said he had quit his job and booked a flight to come here to 'support' me. Well it's been 2 weeks and all he's done is sleep until noon, argue with me (he yelled at me for him forgetting to buy me a birthday gift), and criticize the way I do things. No effort to learn the language, barely applied for a couple of jobs, and the baby is here in 7 weeks. I have had to do everything regarding the paperwork, registration of him now living here, etc. because I know it won't get done after baby comes.
A part of me knows that this pure hate I feel now is fueled by hormones and that maybe I should be happy that he is putting in effort, but I also just want him to go away. I told him he should look for jobs in his home country already. So frustrated.........
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