Only just come across this word and I think it applies to my current relationship. My husband and I have been together for 12 years with his ex being ever present in our lives. Even coming to work in our business for a period of time. It made me feel totally compromised and anxious. I even caught them confiding in one another about relationships.Both his with me and her with her then partner. I explained to both I was uncomfortable with the situation only to be ridiculed and made to feel I was making a fuss about nothing. Now I have discovered they have a WhatsApp group that includes my step son his ex and her sister. He did not hide it from me but when I explained it seemed odd he dismissed my feelings. I feel like I am going mad. He often contacts escorts but says he does nothing but just simply something he does. He says it is separate from our relationship. I am completely out of my depth. He keeps rationalising everything that I feel is wrong.Recently he called me a Bunny Boiler.