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Inappropriate crush

9 replies

Abouttotearmyselfapart · 02/03/2019 22:02

I can't come back for replies very often. I am married but he ignores me a lot. I am 48. I work in my DC school as a supply teacher. I have developed a crush on one of the male teachers. It is classic limerence. I keep wondering whenever he glances my way whether he fancies me. That fuels my crush. I need to stop but need help. Maybe I'm bored in my marriage (DH was unfaithful when we had a sex drought after 2nd DC was born which did not help- we have sex now but not enough to satisfy me). The man I fancy is single. Please give me advice- I don't want to tear my DC lives apart. We have some other non-marriage related problems at the moment but no money worries. Has anyone been through something like this? How do I stop it? I think that I am misinterpreting interactions with my crush as signs he fancies me. Poor sod I don't want to drag him into this. Help!

OP posts:
Bigonesmallone3 · 02/03/2019 22:09

The grass is never greener..

Orange6904 · 02/03/2019 22:41

People will start noticing the looks. Think of your work and family.

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Abouttotearmyselfapart · 02/03/2019 22:47

BUMP

OP posts:
ConfCall · 02/03/2019 22:50

I think that a good start would be to avoid supply work at that particular school. I know that it's probably local and convenient, but you need to avoid this man.

Bigonesmallone3 · 02/03/2019 22:50

Ignore the people who have bothered to reply and wait for someone to come along and tell u to go for it 👍

Orange6904 · 02/03/2019 22:52

What action have you taken so far to work things over with DH? Do you want to?

NameChangeNugget · 03/03/2019 09:22

Don’t embarrass yourself.

Cringing reading it.

HK20 · 03/03/2019 10:24

You're 48 years old, married, with children. You need to grow up.

Avoid the man you have a 'crush' on. Speak to your husband and work on your relationship.

something2say · 03/03/2019 11:27

Or leave it and get the life and sex you want.....

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