I met my partner just over 6 months ago, I fell pregnant immediately. He has 2 children from 2 previous relationships and I have 1. It was a huge shock as I’ve not been able to conceive with my ex husband in 12 years.
He moved in and promised to support me throughout. For the last 6 weeks he has lived like a lodger, Eats and sleeps only. Goes where he wants and when he wants. Comes home every night drunk. There’s no sign of any affection or love. He leaves my daughter out of everything he does with his son. I told him I wasnt happy after crying for weeks everyday, I offered to move to my grans for a few nights to have a break but he chose to leave.
He left 2 days ago. Last contact was yesterday afternoon. I work in a pub where he goes and I know he will be there tonight, there’s no point in trying to talk, my hormones and emotions are all over and I don’t know what to do but I need control again, with my own life. More for my own sanity and my baby’s health.
Financially I will struggle but I have a good network of friends so I know I will be ok. Does anyone have any advice or experienced anything similar? Xx