Would it bother you if your dh looks at naked pictures of college girls?

[Secretagent3]

Just that really. Both in our late 40s. 2 dd and 1 ds. Both dd in college. Last night dh had to get to shop before it shut and forgot to shut down his browsing history. I needed to look at a dress online, and to my delight found he was on some forum with hundreds of nude college girls uploading their photos, breasts, bums, vaginas. So aged 18-24? I’m not too happy about porn as it is, but this I feel is even worse, as these are real life girls his own daughters age. I feel like I won’t be able to respect him anymore. Am I overreacting? He doesn’t know what I’ve seen. He knows I’m upset though. Not sure what to say really, I feel too angry to talk yet.

Yes it would bother me, but that’s irrelevant. It bothers you, for very good reasons. Don’t take a straw poll on here to check if it’s ok for you to be bothered, you need to take this up with your H.

Yes, this is sick. I have no issue with porn, but actively seeking out teenagers would bother me a lot.

It would definitely bother me as his girls are the same age. Are you sure it was him not you ds looking?

Is the rest of the history deleted? From the past few weeks/months?

I would not confront straight away as he then just haa to be more careful to cover his tracks.

I would watch & wait. I did with ExP messaging OW. Im glad I waited as he dropped himself more & more in the shit over the next few months.

Would you know his username & paaswoed to the forum?

I would see if he has been privately messaging other 'users'

My ds is living abroad for the next 2 months, definitely not him. These pages were visited today. I feel sick to be honest. I always had a suspicion he looked at porn, but he always said it wasn’t for him. I never imagined it would be this though.

Yuk.

It would make me furious. It is so politically dodgy, treating young women his Dd’s ages as meat, and it’s creepy.

I would talk to him very explicitly about why I don’t like it, or like him for doing it.

His response would inform next steps.

I looked after he went to bed and all the history is gone. I wasn’t thinking clearly to check usernames, I didn’t think he was a member of this forum. And he was due back any second.

I would be livid and it's disgusting !

I wouldn't have an issue frankly. I'm 40ish and have no issue at looking at men of that age, why would I l?

Is it a reddit thread called gone wild or something similar? If so, it’s a very popular forum and I’d guess that a lot of men go on it. The women put their own pictures up to be seen. It’s grim but for me it is no different to porn, they aren’t women he knows etc.

I'm 40ish and have no issue at looking at men of that age, why would I l?

You are in your forties and look yo sexually explicit picture of 18 year old lads? 😱

I couldn’t sleep last night, debating what to do. If it was average porn I’d be really cross, because he lied he’s not bothered and he knows I don’t like it, but I think I’d just get on with it because so many men use it these days. But it’s the whole age thing that’s really upsetting me here, I’m afraid I won’t be able to look at him the same ever again.

And no, the idea of seeing a young lad, around my ds age in a sexual manner would feel completely inappropriate to me.

Knowing he's got DDs of that age makes it pretty gross, OP.

I don't think I could ever look at him in the same light again, being honest.

It sounds pretty horrid OP. I would do as others suggested and keep an eye on his browsing history over the next few weeks, get more evidence and then discuss with him. He knows it’s wrong because he deleted his browsing history.

I doubt very much that your dh would be alright with men receiving pics of your dd private parts. There is always going to be endless availability of porn, that is never going to change, but I would dig deeper. I discovered my ex porn stash that was of animals and quite young girls when he used my laptop and forgot to sign himself out of his google account and I thought I was on mine when I stumbled upon his glorious sordid pleasures. He has four young daughters and is now my ex, thankfully

@Honeybooboo123 you are joking?