Talk me out of doing something silly,

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Have name changed for this but I am a regular.

Have been chatting to this guy online, he is married and also knows that i am married. Things started out fine, quite flirty. Now he wants me to go meet him for lunch. If i do meet him am I asking for something more to happen?? I am attracted to him and he has made it very clear that he feels the same. Should I just put him off or meet him but on the understanding that nothing happens.

HELP!!!!!!!

re-read OP and thought, how stupid why would you go meet someone that is a complete stranger, then realised it was me that had wrote it.

Cant believe how stupid I've been. Think it was the excitement that I miss.

Off to delete him, thanks all.

Does your dh know of this online relationship? And this man's dw - does she know too? I'm guessing not. I also suspect you will go and meet this guy irrespective of any advice you get on here. You're clearly looking for some drama or you wouldn't be hooking up with some stranger online in the first place. I'd say be careful what you wish for and before you go off on your adventures spare a thought for the innocent parties on both sides. In my opinion you'd be better off spending some time fixing your problems at home before playing silly games with somebody elses husband. Sorry if that sounds harsh but you know what they say...nothing hurts more than the truth!

Well done!

Well done WW. Don't change your mind.

if you do decide to go make sure you let somebody you trust know where you will be going and get them to call you when you're there and 'check in' with them every so often

as my mum always says "if you cant be good be careful"

Hey.. she's not going to do it now. Read the whole thread (important to in these circs!)

good for you

why not go on a date with your DH? try and get that spark going again>

that will teach me to start a message ans go for my break and post it when i get back

are all your kids at school?, if not, would you take them with you?

a very dangerous line, i think you may still be thinking about doing it, but could destroy everything you have now?

explain to DH that you need more excitement, do the luchn thing with him, tell him to meet you where you wanna meet, pretend he's your fancy man?

good luck, and i hope you make the right choice

i bet the photo he's shown you is not even him! you would probably get there to be greeted by a complete freak!!

whu would you want to meet someones else's DH for lunch and more...women like you make me puke - look after your own DH or leave him and find a single man grrrrrr

macdoodle...CHILL....if the man wants to meet other women then he will, its not the womans fault.

anyway she said she wasnt going to meet him now.

I agree with painrush - set up a date with your dp then take him somewhere and be naughty!!!! Also make sure you meet there so you can text him naughty messages beforehand and wear sexy underwear even if you only have jeans and t-shirt over the top!!