So long story short, i went for 2 lovely dates with a man i work with. He kinda freaked abit about the reality of single mum life & offered friend with benefits, i said no. But couldn't get him out of my head so after a week i messaged to say I'd thought about it & yes, he then replied its not his thing & no judgements!!! You suggested it!!!! Gah!! Ok fine, i said i enjoyed his company etc & if he ever wanted to see me as friends or not to let me know, he said ok. Anyway so we are now back to being friends but i can't get him out of my head!! Hes clearly not as interested in me than i am him, but i can't get him out of my mind .... what can i do? Im a grown woman not a teenager, i went on a lovely date last night but have declined another as i can't stop thinking about this man. Help!!!!