Lately I seem to attract really jealous men. I'm not sure if it's me, so looking for advice.
My horrific ex was controlling and very jealous (amongst other things) he hated that I had Male friends. Friends I've known for years, he would get very jealous and dislike if I went out and they were there. (Not drinking out but at rugby or cricket) due to this hobby I've met a lot of friends both Male and female this way. He would say "I trust you, it's them I don't trust. I know what men are like" he would go in a huff and if I tried to text him he'd be cold for days.
Anyway in the end and months of trying to convince him I'm doing nothing wrong. I would never cheat or be disloyal. When this ended I put this down to him being controlling and also lying about his life.
I've started to meet someone else, we click and he's lovely. It's early days. But he's done exactly the same today, gone in a huff when I told him who I was out with and gone really cold. Can I add there are females here, it just happens we are here as a group.
Am I doing something wrong, to have a relationship will I have to lose my make friends?