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What would you think....

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ManhattanRun · 22/02/2019 19:09

If a guy you’d started seeing, who was newly single, has asked to come over to mine twice now instead of taking me out?
We live in a fairly small area and I feel like he’s scared to be seen out with me for some reason?
He’s not tried anything so I don’t think it’s because he just wants sex... I may be being naive though...

OP posts:
Babdoc · 22/02/2019 19:13

Still married and doesn’t want to be seen around with his mistress?
Too mean to take you out on a date?
Hoping for a no strings shag at your place?
Who knows, OP, but the possibilities aren’t great are they.

fearfullotsofthetime · 22/02/2019 19:15

I’d wonder whether it relates to cost.. perhaps he doesn’t have much spare income at the moment?

Hellohappiness · 22/02/2019 19:15

What happens if you suggest going out?

FetchezLaVache · 22/02/2019 19:18

What do you do at yours (eating/drinking I mean) and does he arrive empty-handed?

ducky21 · 22/02/2019 19:21

maybe he thinks ur easy and he doesnt need to wine and dine u... sounds dodgy to me

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ManhattanRun · 22/02/2019 19:22

We chat, have a couple of drinks etc, similar to a date but at my house
I did suggest going out the other day (as normal people would!) and he said after this time we can?! All seems really odd, can’t put my finger on it

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CrackersDontMatter · 22/02/2019 19:31

Is he waiting for payday?

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