Be gentle if you can, I am a little fragile at the moment, I will try to be include all relevant details but keep as brief as possible.
My husband leaves all the big issues to me. Or rather all the things he doesn't want to deal with. I work full time, he is sahd has been since we have our 2 children 10 & 8. He doesn't do nothing, just not more than he has to. For eg during the half term this week as during most holidays all he has done with the children is yesterday take them to visit his family in the next town, the rest of the week they will have been at home playing. As with most holidays I will take them to places at the weekend as I am work all week long. Yesterday, I left the house just before 6am for work. I finished earlier than usual as our 10 y/o is having counselling for anxiety. It was a little difficult as at the end of the session when I go in to have a de- brief the counsellor said that the 10 y/o thinks that I worry about them as they are nearly 11 which is the age at which my eldest child from a previous relationship died at - they had a rare illness.
When I got home I took the dog and 8 y/o for a walk over the fields, ate some dinner got changed and said to my husband that I wanted to go to bed as I also felt unwell with headache, sore throat etc which I had for a couple of days.
We had a knock at the door to say that the 8 y/o and a neighbour of a similar age had posted a note through another neighbours door in the village earlier that day which was a hoax - and said ha ha tricked you on it. We asked 8 y/o if there were any more and she confessed to another one being posted and so I asked my husband to go and see that neighbour to confess to it before they found it but he made a big fuss and wouldn't go.
In the end I got dressed and went and explained and they were lovely saying this sort of thing was going around in primary school where they worked so not to worry but thankyou for coming over. But I feel let down again and so alone.