Harassment?

[AlwaysSunshine81]

What is classed as harassment? My ex of nearly 2 years is messaging me, often at 11pm. His been GF had a baby in jan and he didn’t tell me until 2 days before it was born, our dd didn’t know anything about it. I had a very difficult month in jan as I think I still loved him. He had always messaged me saying he loved me and wanted me back but yet there was this secret baby.
Now he can’t get over that we will
Never be friends again. I’ve told him I’ve accepted it but I will never be friends again. He is a compulsive liar anyway.
He keeps messaging or ringing and I’m finding it hard and every time he does it stresss me out. Tonight he has phoned and told me he is going for custody of our dd.

Can you block him?

If he continues you can report him for harassment, yes.

Just block him and ignore. How does he think he's going to persuade a court that he's the right person to have DD? Does he pay maintenance? Does he see her regularly? Do they have a relationship?

He pays maintence, he sees her every other weekend. But he’s threatened me that he’s going to work part time so he can have custody.

My life goes in the right direction for a few days and then I hear from him and he messes me up again. I can be so strong at times but weak at other times.

I blocked him before but then how does he contact me re dd?

Stick to emails?? and only respond if its regarding your child.

Keep a diary of everything just in case it's needed in the future.

I have a full log! It’s just so upsetting cos I get myself in track and then I hear from him and it upsets me