Pregnant and heartbroken ADVICE please

[Mel99xx]

Hey
Ive just found out im 4 weeks nearly 5 weeks pregnant and i told my partner. He decided to tell me he has been seeing his ex who he has a child with and he doesnt want to see me or our child. He states that i have destroyed his life and that me and this child will never be any part of his life. He blames me for everything and says i planned it to trap him which i didnt.! I know i have to do this alone, when i was 20 i had his child aborted as he forced me but i cant do it this time. I know i will be alone but i also have to deal with this heart break. has anyone eles been heartbroken and do you have any advice. I cant stop hurting and i really dont want to bring stress to the child or feel so unwanted. Advice anyone???? xx
Mel

He sounds like an utter bastard.
You say you can't end a pregnancy again so , as you say, you'll be a single mum. Many women are in the same position, hopefully some will give some insight and advice on how to manage.

Do you have family support?

In terms of hurt and stress, you're very early days in the pregnancy; hopefully when you're over the shock and intended hurt, you'll feel better as time goes on.

I read this as pregnant and heartburn so was gonna suggest Rennie double action.

I don't think a Rennie will quite cut this though, OP. I'm sorry you're going through this.

However, If you do happen get heartburn, I highly recommend the Rennie's.

This video might help. It's the science behind how to get over an ex.

What an arsehole...

It's your body and can do whatever you want with it, if he doesn't want to see his child it's his loss.

If you're living together boot him out and give his details to CMS when baby arrives.

You know what he is now, so erase him from your life and focus on planning for the baby.

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*intense hurt not intended

I love to quote things, sometimes it is cheesy, but othertimes, it is just the right thing.
"You are beautiful, storng, and independant. What ever is holding you back from your life?." -HEH
Sometimes we have to realize the hard way that we are capable of more than we ever imagined. But once this is realized, we have no excuse in moving forward. Don't let life's past oppertunities dicide how you to move forward. Every day bring new oppertunies(challenges), nothing can slow down recognition and progression. Just know, the world if full of encouragement, as well as discouragement and it can never make your decisions or you.

Thank you for all your advice. It's hard to get my head around it all at once because it's a massive shock to my life too but I know I can try get help with support. I'm only 26 and feel I need some advice but all these comments really do help. Xx