Mine and my husbands sex life has always been good. He often initiated sex and we had it a minimum once every week (usually more). Since having our DS 4 months ago we've had sex 3 times. He never initiates it anymore. There's been times when we could have had it when baby is asleep but he's said he's hungry and had food instead!! Very very out of character.
I suggested my friend looks after the baby so we can do something as a couple. I was excited my friend offered to babysit but he just looked down at his phone! Didn't say anything, didn't want to plan anything.
He's suggested going out with his friends and said I'm invited but when I said I'll try sort childcare so I can actually go he's appeared disappointed..
Is he having an affair? Or Has him seeing me give birth affected how he sees me? I feel he no longer fancies me. What can I do???