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Losing the plot

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Notgettinganyyounger23 · 18/02/2019 12:27

Not sure if this is in the right place but hey ho. Does anyone else have times when everything seems to be going wrong. I work full time and generally leave the house at 7am and get home about 5.45pm so I'm generally knackered. I earn good money but it's pressured and i have loads of debt so constantly feel i work for nothing. My relationship has gone down the pan, my daughter is pregnant and living at home so trying to support with that. My sons about to start exams and this morning my landlord has told me the house is going to be sold. The weekend after i have redecorated. I feel like my heads exploding.

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Canthearthroughmyglasses · 18/02/2019 12:50

Yup, my life seems to have been spiralling into something I have very little control over. I am trying to solve my issues slowly and with cancelling. It’s a horrible time

CoolJule43 · 18/02/2019 18:35

Mmm, sometimes it never rains but it pours.

I know it's hard but when these things happen you need to think that it may be that there is something even better around the corner. Perhaps you will love the next place you live in even more than this one.

Notgettinganyyounger23 · 18/02/2019 19:05

I know, i dont usually let stuff faze me but this month has been particularly challenging

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ConfCall · 18/02/2019 20:35

I had a similar period in December/January, with uncertainty over my relationship, job insecurity (I had to apply for my role doe to a restructure and didn't get it) and a health niggle. I tried to deal with one thing at a time. I saw the GP and got a prescription. I applied for another job within the conpany and got it. Relationship still shaky but we talked about it. So that would be my advice - one thing at a time. Maybe prioritise the housing situation first.

Notgettinganyyounger23 · 18/02/2019 22:27

Good advise, going to try and step back. Had a good old cry at work luckily no-one walked in

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