Sexting porn addict fiancé

[Bobzeboo]

Ok I’ve been with my parter for 4.5yrs we have a 3yo, he as aspergers. 2 years ago we was having huge problems and I ended up sexting other men for aprroval, I did this at our lowest point and I regret it, we got past this. Fast forward to 2 days before Xmas, I found out he had been sexting a girl and had some porn on his phone, we argued but I agreed I’d done it he’s done it now it’s done if one of us did it again that would be it, he also did this at our happiest as we are trying for another baby. Fast forward again after I’ve had a lot of sleepless night and was just beginning to come to terms with what he did I found out Last night that he is a porn addict, now I don’t mean porn hub or a few pics or mags, I mean a whole catalog on his phone of 72 different women, pics vids the lot, and worst he paid for it! Now this wasn’t on his phone back in December so this is new, I’ve upped my game in the bedroom but this obviously wasn’t enough for him, what the hell do I do?? I love him but my god I hate him for it and hate how he’s made me feel again, I want to break up but at the same time I don’t want to but I can’t trust him!! Advice?

If there is no trust there is no relationship. Once the trust has gone it never returns.

Do not bring another baby into this mess of a relationship. Make a better life for yourself without him in it day to day.

There's no future here. You've both cheated. He's paying other women to make him porn. It's done. There's no trust; there's no respect, you made a last ditch deal to get some back and reinstate boundaries and he's stomped all over them.

It may as well be a civil break up because you've both fucked up here, but there's nowhere else to go.

Thank you, bloody hard!! Just feel so let down and so dumped on by it all don’t even no how to feel about it fully