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Karma

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lifegoes · 16/02/2019 17:38

Do you believe in it?

I saw my ex today (from a far, he didn't see me) he looked dreadful and fat 😂😂😂😂

I know that's awful, but I took great pleasure in it.

I made sure he didn't see me as I had no make-up on

But it did make me think, so you think those that hurt you, do actually get there's?

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PurpleDaisies · 16/02/2019 17:39

No. I don’t.

PurpleDaisies · 16/02/2019 17:39

Sorry, too many good people have shit things happen to them.

AnneLovesGilbert · 16/02/2019 17:39

Nope. And not sure what you’re describing is karma.

PurpleDaisies · 16/02/2019 17:40

I made sure he didn't see me as I had no make-up on

It’s a shame you feel you need to be wearing make up to be worthy of being seen.

LaurenOrdering · 16/02/2019 17:41

Yes I do. It's a case of what you give you receive.

Yippeee · 16/02/2019 17:43

No of course not.

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lifegoes · 16/02/2019 17:43

@PurpleDaisies if I see him I naturally want to look my best. Mainly down to how horrifically bad he treated me. Plus I didn't want the drama of him approaching me.

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lifegoes · 16/02/2019 17:44

@AnneLovesGilbert I didn't say that WAS karma. But it made me wonder if he's having a shit time as he looked dreadful. And he deserves to have a shit time for the way he treated me

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lifegoes · 16/02/2019 17:45

@LaurenOrdering I do, I like to think what you put out you get back. So if you are good to others you should get that back. Not always in the way you expect.

Vice verse

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AnneLovesGilbert · 16/02/2019 17:48

Life is obviously unfair and terrible things happen to good people all the time while evil monsters thrive so I don’t think there’s justice in the world a lot of the time.

Maybe your ex is miserable but it won’t be become of divine intervention making sure he’s paying for his past misdeeds.

NameChangeNugget · 16/02/2019 17:59

The whole concept of karma is crap

LaurenOrdering · 16/02/2019 17:59

@lifegoes that's exactly what I mean.
I go about my life treating people how I would like to be treated. I try to be kind & do the right thing & not intentionally hurt anyone.
I like to believe most people are like that.

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lifegoes · 16/02/2019 18:06

@LaurenOrdering I'm with you on that. It's a nice, positive way to approach life.

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LaughingCow99 · 16/02/2019 18:14

No, plenty of horrible people get an easy ride in life. Fat people can be very happy, op. That's hardly karma.

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lifegoes · 16/02/2019 18:23

@LaughingCow99 I wasn't implying his was karma was his weight.

When you see an ex that's been horrific to you, caused you so much pain. The type of guy where his appearance is everything. It made me laugh to see him looking so awful. It was out of character for him. That was the point I was making about how he looked

I was simply asking the question that do we believe in karma. He deserves a lifetime of unhappiness for what he's done

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