Dhs health has deteriorated recently. He will recover but it will take time.
If I am honest our relationship hasn't always been great. He hasn't done much I the house tbh got the last couple of years. This was ok as I only work part time.
However since his deteriorated he seems to forget that it has been like this for a while. For example this Christmas he physically couldn't do much but he forgets that he did bugger all the previous year.
Dud to his illness I have to drive everywhere and he is a dreadful back seat driver. All we do is argue.
Money has also become a bone of contention again. He has an expensive hobby which he spent 300 quid on this year do far. He has a special birthday coming up and has his eye on about 500 quid a worth if stuff. I think we spent 500 approx on my birthday but that was because I had a party and finances were better than.
Today I casually said that I might give an offer We had for a discounted holiday to a sibling. He jumped down my throat and said we aren't flush. I wasn't suggesting I go with them.
I just feel like I have to make adjustments due to him being off sick but he doesn't.
We have been out for a couple of meals as on holiday and I have carefully chosen set menus but he still has what he wants.
I have also not been able to book a short break for me and the kids as our finances are less secure.
I have been looking for more work but the reality is that I have even less time to work now as he needs more care.