Hey, I know that this is normally a group for asking advice on how to deal with an ex, but I need advice on whether me and my son's dad should get back together. Not right now though. Basically he has issues with staying when the going gets tough and being consistent when he is here as in doing the things that need doing everyday. He walked because there was a brief trust issue which was my fault. I saw messages on his phone and flipped out but it was just a girl he works with. Nothing going on there. The problems that he has, he has gone and sought out some therapy for and when he talks to me about it, it does seem to be making an impact on him. We have been split for a while now and there hasn't been anyone else for either of us and while we don't have major issues the consistency thing does need sorting.
Has anyone had a successful relationship after individual therapy or has it ended in a ball of flames again?
Can it work?