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My ex boyfriend

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emmaj80 · 13/02/2019 11:17

Hi Im new to here as looking to get advice, I split with my ex boyfriend in November because he was texting another girl. I still talk to him and see him from time to time, he text me on Sunday saying he wanted to meet up again soon as he still loves me and said he wish he had a child with me. The thing is the feelings are still there on both sides and when I saw him a couple of weeks ago I'm sure he was texting some girl again as I over saw a message about a hotel in Wembley. What other women do and what advice can you give me please

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EyeOfTheTigger · 13/02/2019 11:31

I think you may want to get your post moved to another section - maybe Relationships?

'Ask Me Anything' is a section to allow MNers to ask the post anything at all about their given subject.

On the subject of the BF, I'd give him a miss as he doesn't sound as though he's really in to you, despite his comments about still loving you. He's not respecting your feelings by texting other girls. Definitely don't get pregnant by him. Sorry OP.

EyeOfTheTigger · 13/02/2019 11:31

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AnyaMumsnet · 13/02/2019 11:50

Hi there OP,

We hope you don't mind, we're going to move your thread to Relationships. We think you'll get better support there.

wishywashy6 · 13/02/2019 12:23

If he loved you he wouldn't have been texting other girls in the first place. Words are easy to say, judge him on his actions not the bs that comes out of his mouth.
Sounds like he's just using you as an option.

He'd be binned off for good if it was me.

hellsbellsmelons · 13/02/2019 14:58

Hell no.
This one is no good at all.
He's a sleazy liar and a cheat.
Don't go there again.
You WILL ABSOLUTELY regret it.
I can promise you that!

GreenFingersWouldBeHandy · 13/02/2019 15:52

Good god no, leave him well alone and don't even consider having a child with him!!!

He's probably texting half a dozen of you at the same time in the hope of a hook up. Sorry.

FinallyHere · 13/02/2019 15:56

Do you really 'have feelings for' someone who you have caught showing the kind of attention you want to someone else. Is it possible that you are sorry that the relationship you might have had with he, if he were different?

It's good to find out these things so that you know to look for someone who really is interest in you and who might really love you.

Find a good 'un. You won't regret it.

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