Hi, I'm looking for advice and different opinions really. I have been in a LDR for about 2 years. We only live about 1 hour 10 minutes apart. Partner used to live near me but moved away 5 years ago with his ex wife and children and then they split up and we later got together. He's been separated/now divorced for about 4 years. However, I have two children aged 15 and 16 and he has 2 aged 10 and 8. We obviously miss each other when we're not together but see each other at the weekends and both have busy jobs in the week. He wants me to move up to his when my eldest is 18 which is years away. However, he has no friends up there, I really don't like the town he lives in and all his friends still live down here. It's literally just him and his job up there. He could get another job anywhere. He has his children every other weekend from Saturday to Sunday 5pm and one night in the week from 4 to 6.30pm and half the holidays. I have my children 9 nights out of 14 and half to more than half of the holidays. Also, I have my own house with hardly any mortgage and he is renting. He never picks up the children from school or takes them to school. My question is, he keeps complaining that I won't move up there and it's going to take so long. I won't say to my children in 3 years "you're 18, my job's done, I'm selling up and moving"!!! I've asked why he doesn't move back down here but he says his children would not want to have to drive one hour there and back each time. Am I unreasonable or is he unreasonable to expect me to move when he's not willing to? Sorry this is so long.