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Am I paranoid or is it a bit odd?

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B3ck89 · 10/02/2019 15:47

Been with partner 2 years, hasnt been the greatest trust wise (he hasn’t always been truthful with me) Fast forward to last night he was searching something on his phone, and I noticed his searches were coming up on my tab on google so I told him and I said maybe tomorrow take your email off so I don’t have all your google searches on my tab... because he’s signed in on tab same as his phone so it’s linked.
He seemed a little on edge, and soon as we got into bed he asked straight away about watching the movie we was going to watch on the tab, hardly gave me a chance to settle in bed.
All well, still signed in on tab before We went to sleep but when I woke up (him still asleep) he had signed out.
My problem isn’t him signing out as I mentioned it to him, but why would he wake in the middle of the night before I wake up to do it?
It’s making me suspicious as to why he couldn’t have done in when he got up?
I wouldn’t like him looking through my search history, mainly because I google a load of crap and I like a little privacy.
Am I over reacting or does this sound a little strange?
He was fine having his email signed in, till I told him his search histories were coming up.
His previous lies have made me a little paranoid, which don’t help the situation.

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Lifeisabeach09 · 10/02/2019 16:10

I don't feel you are being paranoid.
He didn't want you to see his searches.
I wouldn't stay with someone I didn't trust.

goldengummybear · 10/02/2019 16:11

It's impossible to say without knowing what he searched for. It could be something embarrassing "how to screw in a lightbulb", something private "valentine's gift from my partner" or something that could lead to an argument like googling an ex's name just for an innocent nosey.

B3ck89 · 10/02/2019 16:12

I had no intention of leaving his account on there, and told him to sort it when he could but the fact he had to do it while I was asleep is making me wonder why?

I don’t fully trust him, but I love him so much (I sound so stupid and gullible)

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B3ck89 · 10/02/2019 16:15

I’ve been off with him today and quiet, haven’t spoke to him about it because I know there will be an excuse and I don’t know how to bring it up without it turning in a bit of a row of me being paranoid and it being al in my head.

Thankyou for replies so far Smile

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MsPavlichenko · 10/02/2019 16:20

This relationship is making you unhappy. I know you love him but you can't trust him ( correctly), and you can't ask him for reassurance as he will lie/ gas light you.

Must better to leave , and perhaps in the future find someone you love, trust and who makes you happy.

Karigan195 · 10/02/2019 16:22

My partner sometimes hides his iPad particularly in close proximity to Valentine’s Day, birthdays and Christmas.....

No need to fear the worst he might just be embarrassed because he’s googling average dick size or how to make it larger.

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