Hello MNers. Had to name change due to snooping STBXP.
I have had put up with emotional, sexual and financial abuse for many years. Two years ago was brave enough to start the process of ending the relationship. It's been very difficult (he forced me to go to couples counselling and has been obstinate we must stay together) and he is still living in the shared family home. He has always gone through my phone and laptop at every given opportunity due to massive insecurity and paranoia that I am having an affair with everybody I know. He saw a couple of MN posts and comments and is now telling everyone that I am 'crucifying him through social media'.
Recently, he has been threatening to get me sacked from my job (that I absolutely love) because of messages he has seen and libellous posts on FB and MN. I have never mentioned his name - particularly on FB where we may have mutual friends (he and his family are blocked). I think he is possibly delusional and could have a personality disorder.
He has also recently called me a paedophile because he has seen messages from a younger male colleague - accused me of grooming him - and is adamant that this could lose me my job. I am not really after any solution, just wanted to vent some steam and also wondered if anyone else has had similar experiences with their partners blaming Mumsnet for relationship break ups/character assasinations? I feel like I am going slightly around the twist having to still share space with this bellend