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Is this a midlife crisis my husband is having

29 replies

Barbara13 · 10/02/2019 02:48

We have been married 23 years and I always thought happily 3 years ago his mum passed away then I had cancer he was brilliant my rock we were a very together couple but now I hardly know him
I have been told he has never loved me married me for the tax relief his drinking more and more I have stopped him enjoying music and basically he has never been happy with me tonight our grand daughter was meant to sleep over but he was drunk when I got in from work so I had to go to their house to have her he seems to have lost interest in the family and his mood changes like the weather he has also moved out the bed room I am at my witts end I love him and just want my husband back this has been going on for months now he also mentions his age most days he use to be loving now I get all sorts said mostly not nice

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Alfiemoon1 · 09/04/2019 11:34

So sorry to read your update Barbara i hope you have some real life support

hellsbellsmelons · 09/04/2019 11:44

So sorry to see your update.
But at least you know now and can start to sort things out to move on.
I'm glad you have RL support around you.
Keep busy and don't do the 'pick me' dance.
HUGS!!!

chandrakathy · 02/02/2021 04:34

Get rid of him. I"ve been through this. It gets worse. He's not good to you. Move on, take care of yourself and one day you will be happy and in a better place again. hugs

Chiccie · 02/02/2021 05:06

What happened OP? Are you in a better place now?

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