Hello this is my first post. I'm a 40 year old father of 2 children a 14 year old girl and a 10 year old boy.
There mother left in 2013. I was single for 14 months and I feel like I met the love of my life. The last 14 months have been tough. I feel like I had made positive steps forward with some of my issues... Constantly asking do you still want to be with me, do you love me, are you talking or seeing anyone else.
I don't live with my partner so sometimes my children have seen me upset. I talk to my daughter as we are very close. I haven't so much recently because my partner said its not really fair. I understand that and I'm learning all the time.
But now my partner feels that uncomfortable she doesn't want to stay over on Fridays. (she says every other weekend Friday to Sunday, my children go to there mum on Saturday evenings until Tuesday evening). I don't want to see less of my partner, I love being with her I actually want to be with her more. I just don't know how to move forward.
What do I do? Im doing everything I can to be happy with her and that is all I want.
I feel so sad it's like one problem after another. I just don't know what to do 😔
Mhl