I asked my ex to leave 18 months ago, after hideous emotional abuse and coercive control. He did under duress and then barraged me with horrendous abuse, threats of suicide, name calling, swearing, shouting, said I had killed him, blood on my hands, would come around to the house and yell at me, he pushed me to the floor, shouted swear words in my face....it was like this for 8 months - it was dreadful - I honestly felt like I'm was in some sort of traumatic shock, jump every time I recieve an email - he still is vile to me calls me horrid names, a see you next tuesday, a b@tch - he was also bankrupt so sadly I'm having to sell the family home, with no offer of help or support from him, even though the mess was of his making....he deosn't even ask where is children are going to live...that's 'my mess to sort out now'...Going forward to last spring, the threats of suicide stopped suddenly, he'd meet someone 20 years his junior and had 'fallen in love' with her...he blocked me on all form of contact apart from email. Still has. I have to ask him every month for maintenance, he refuses to set up a direct debit - has refused to pay unless i behave in a certain way, says when he will see the children, it is all on his terms...the relationship with the young woman fizzled out....within three days he was on a dating app (my son saw him using it constantly when they were together - he made a joke about it) and met someone via a website in November. Already it seems that They virtually live with each other, go on holidays, meals out, live the life of reilly - he is clearly love bombing her - whislt I deal with the financial aftermath and real from the abuse, he still continues to call me f@@@ing* stupid, poision, vile, hateful ungrateful.....but now also says that he wants to introduce this woman into my childrens lives..he asked my 10 year old if she wanted to go and stay with him at her place....I said that this wasn't on and we had to be guided by the children yet he goes ahead and ignores me....trying to control even this...it's got me in bits, my children spending time happy families with him and his latest g/f...after what he has done...am i being unreasonable why can he get away with it, I am the one who is bringing up the children on my own (he seems them an hour or two a week) providing them with a home, and dealing with the finacial mess for him to take my children for fun weekends away whilst I penny pinch makes me so so so upset xx