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JAVL · 05/02/2019 13:40

Just fucking hate my partner at the moment! Actually he is not even a partner he is just fucking there all the time and i hate him for it don't even know what else to say really, just nedeed to get this of my chest sorry guys

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LovingLola · 05/02/2019 13:40

Can you leave him? Or are their children/house/financials involved?

Singlenotsingle · 05/02/2019 13:41
Shock
Astella22 · 05/02/2019 13:43

Let it all out love, a good vent does wonders Wink

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JAVL · 05/02/2019 13:44

We have a 7 month old and a 12 months contract on the house we rent. Also he says he doesn't want to be away from the little one so he claims he can take care of him if i want to leave :| Like i would ever leave my child

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letsdolunch321 · 05/02/2019 13:45

What a small minded prick he sounds.

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JAVL · 05/02/2019 13:45

It's just i hate his attitude and he thinks just because he works 3 days a week he is the king of the house and that taking care of a baby is like sitting down all day. I haven't slept since the little one was born because he is terrible with his sleep

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JAVL · 05/02/2019 13:49

He has become this monster i don't recognise and he thinks i'm the crazy one obvs

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poglets · 06/02/2019 12:37

Emotionally and mentally detach. This is the best thing you can do for yourself right now.

Are you on maternity leave?

HollowTalk · 06/02/2019 12:42

Three days a week? What's up with him? Why isn't he working five days?

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JAVL · 06/02/2019 12:59

I am on mat leave, he only works 16 hours at one job and then he works for an agency and things are slow at the mom for him

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poglets · 06/02/2019 15:10

Do you have family nearby you can go to? Being on maternity leave allows you some freedom that won't be there if you return to work.

You want to avoid a situation where he is considered the primary carer. Go now and you can establish some sort of life for yourself before.

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JAVL · 06/02/2019 16:17

Wish i could but i have no one, all my family is back in Portugal

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