I’ve been with my OH for 6 years and we have a 2 year old son. He’s a lovely little boy but is a typical boisterous 2 year old and can be hard work.
I work part time (2 afternoons a week) do the majority of the housework and obviously look after DS the majority of the time.
I try my best to keep the house nice and tidy but he’s never grateful for it.. he just comments on the negative. He always comments that I don’t cook from scratch like his mother does (I usually use jars for quickness as it’s hard chopping onions while a 2 year old is stealing them from the chopping board!) he says the jobs that I do are unimportant, several times asks what do I do all day, says that I’m lazy.
Yesterday he wound me up so much I said well if you were brought up by being breastfed and on such good food why are you overweight and I’m not? A low blow I know but I’m so fed up of being put down when I’m trying my best. He then called me a vile bitch, shouting and swearing at my in front of DS. This isn’t the first time.
Part of me wants to just leave to make him realise what I do and that he can’t talk to me like that. But the only place I have to go is my parents and I don’t want to put on them. We’re meant to be getting married next year the venue is booked, but I just have this sinking feeling it’s not the right thing. I feel as I have no other option but to stay. Any advice?