DH speaking to someone else

[Pinkroses1]

So I’ve already posted a thread about this in divorce/separation.
We’ve been married 2 years.
Caught DH receive a Snapchat from someone, when I said who is it he said it was a friend etc and ran off out the house.
He later admitted it and it was what I thought it was. He hasnt been attracted to me since becoming pregnant so I think he’s been entertaining himself with other woman on social media.
I said to him I think it’s time for me to leave because it’s not the first time he’d done something like this and I said I wouldn’t forgive again.
Surprisingly he didn’t seem bothered at all and said I think it’s best we separated anyway I think we never loved each other that much which I actually did
I’m so confused as I’m 33 weeks pregnant and the only place I have to go is my mums (haven’t told her yet) I’ve got so much stuff here and now a lot of baby stuff so moving is going to be hard! But I really shouldn’t be here.
Also I’m not sure if I would have to change hospitals too?
When do I go??

@pinkroses1 I'm so sorry that I don't have any advice; I just wanted to give you a hand hold until someone else (who has advice) comes along. xxx

Moving won't be as hard as putting up with that bollocks.
Ltb and take care

Why doesn’t he leave?

Why would it be you who has to move out? As you say, you are established there with all your things, the baby's things, a local hospital.

Could you stay, and your mum come and visit for a while when necessary? Your partner (ex to be) will need to pay child support btw.

Poor you. What a horrible situation. I had v similar happen to be. My immediate thought on a practical Level for you is.. he should be the one moving out not you . You are heavily pregnant and emotionally distressed. You'll be great voice no birth soon and have presumably started making your home a welcome place for your baby. Unless you have a really strong urge to not be there I would be telling him to go. It will be much harder to move back in if you wanted to once he has settled himself in whilst you are st your mums. Priority will always be given to a child having a suitable place to live if and when you separate.. could you send him off and get your Mum to come and look after you for a while? I'm sorry you are going through this.

We live with his parents unfortunately so that’s why I have to leave..

Great voice no.. was meant to say 'giving birth'

Oh bugger! I can see why that's tricky then

Bloody hell thats awful OP I'm so sorry What a dick he is and how lucky are you to have found out now. I'd go to your mums immediately. Call your midwife while you are there and ask advice. Best of luck and concentrate on that amazing baby that's about to come into your life. You will soon realise how lucky you are. X

Are you legally married ? If so, you need legal advice.

Thank you all 💐
It is a tricky one as I really wanted to give birth at the hospital over here.
I’m trying my best not to stress too much right now I should really speak to my mum soon and see what she says.
And yes we are legally married

give birth over here are you in a different country to your birth country?

@windgate No it’s in the same country

Who owns the house you're living in? His parents?

You've got a while before you're due to give birth and he seems quite clear that this is over for him, I don't think it will do your mental health any good to stay.

Can you go to your mums for a while and then see what you can do about the hospital? That seems the best idea right now.

Yes it’s his parents house.
I agree going to my mums right now will be the right thing to do, I’m seeing my midwife on Wednesday I can ask her then.