My relationship with OH haa totally broken down. It was never great to start. I was more invested than him always. In the eight years we've been together he's never bought me a birthday or Christmas present, told me he loves me or said anything remotely nice or complimentary, he refuses to get a divorce from his ex, i buy everything for our DD, and he is entirely focused on how much money he is spending and refuses to buy anything jointly with me. He calls me lazy continuously for not doing enough housework and puts me on guilt trips for not contributing enough financially. I am currently in teacher training following having my daughter who is now nearly 2. We argue constantly as he always wants his own way. I back down 80% of the time but the other 20% i think fuck it I've had enough. I get really upset, frustrated and angry and I dont want my daughter to be around this atmosphere any longer. We live in a rented house and the tenancy is in his name and he refuses to move out. The majority of the belongings in the house are mine but he would rather see me go through the upheaval and stress of finding somewhere else to live and move and pack all mine and DDs stuff than just move out and leave me to sort out housing benefit. So I'm stuck. The teacher training takes up so much of my time i would have to wait to holidays to do any thing anyway. But without a job or any savings i dont think i would find anywhere to live anyway. I feel totally trapped like there's no way out. I try to just get through each day bur its just so unhappy that I'm crying myself to sleep eache night. Most nights he sleeps in the spare room. Does anyone have any advice or has been in a similar situation and what have you done? Sorry if its a bit rambling but its late and I'm exhausted.