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Struggling with a breakup

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FlowerGirl7 · 03/02/2019 20:42

Hey, so me and boyfriend have recently broken up. I knew the relationships was coming to end because he had cheated on multiple occasions and he works away and I found it extremely hard to trust him at the end, saying all that though I'm really struggling with the breakup. At first all i wanted to do was talk to him but he made it very clear he never wanted to speak to me again. However, I will go days without contacting him, then for him to ring up and tell me that hes loves and wants to be with me still, but then can turn on me are still being horrible towards me. I just dont know what to do hes giving me mixed signals and i know that i still love and care for him and thats why im struggling so much. I've tried all the common things you do when you break up with someone (talking to friends and family, removing things that remind me of him, deleted him off social and all). Imjust so confused and upset still.

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Giesabreak · 03/02/2019 20:58

Don't answer the phone to him for a start. It's over and for very good reasons. There's absolutely no reason to be in contact anymore. It won't do you any good.

Lozzerbmc · 04/02/2019 16:11

Dont speak with him- its over and you are making it harder for yourself. Why do you want to be with a cheat is what you need to ask yourself. Remember you deserve better

yetanotheropinion · 04/02/2019 16:54

Get hard-headed. He's a cheat. He doesn't like you much. Get away while you can.

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