Background;
So I have a friend... we shall call her emma, me and her met through a mutual friend, she has 4 kids by 3 days, 2 girls and 2 boys. She is with a man who is a complete tool.
So this friendship is becoming a bit overwhelming, we got close when 2 of our children had a joint medical problem, she doesn't appear to have any other close friends. No local family. She doesn't get on well with the ex partners
Problem: she calls/texts every 20 mins or so, if I don't answer she arrives at my house- and lets herself in- or my mums or at my children's activities. If I am late for the school run she rings me, my husband, my mum until someone answers (literally like 2 mins late)
Shes booked her child's appointments the same time as ours, our kids don't get on well at all. This makes it really stressful.
The final straw was Friday I was picking up my child and one of there class friends. Emma knew this... i was at a meeting at the school and had to walk round to a different entrance to get the kids. When I got there the kids had gone. The teacher had sent them with emma. I had no idea where they were. I walked to where she parks and the kids were thankfully there.
Its all just becoming to much and I don't know how to handle it.