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Does he like me?

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XOXOGOSSIPGIRL · 02/02/2019 01:33

Sorry this post is long but I hope you can keep up haha.

I'm hoping this is in the right category so basically I've met this older guy twice now great sex! He's funny and very passionate (which I've never had before) I'm 23 and he's 36 abit of a age gap but I don't see the problem as I'm actually a lot more mature for my age.
I haven't done any dating for 2 years as that's when I came out of a Emotional abusive relationship so it's all kind of new to me again.
I like this guy we talk everyday he has 2 kids he sees on the regular respects his kids mother which is amazing and I have a kid from a previous relationship.
We have quite a bit in common.
Anyway as a younger girl and an older guy I feel a little intimidated by him I don't show it of course but he makes me question a lot of things regarding does he like me does he want more with me gradually in the future or is it just strictly sex. I don't want to ask so soon as I just don't want to look stupid but I just haven't got a clue whether he wants to progress or not as we haven't actually been on a date.
That's another thing we haven't actually gone out on a date so that's what gets me questioning but he says things about "when we see each other next etc" or just little remarks that he says makes me question he does like me.

Maybe this is my own doing by questioning it so early because of my previous relationship I don't want to play silly games. I would it be weird to ask him on a date? I just don't know what to do I feel like I suck at this dating thing. BlushHmm

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Justagirlwholovesaboy · 02/02/2019 01:36

A lot of it depends on who you met?

Justagirlwholovesaboy · 02/02/2019 01:36

How...

XOXOGOSSIPGIRL · 02/02/2019 01:36

Online dating app Blush

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XOXOGOSSIPGIRL · 02/02/2019 01:37

He has mentioned before he's ready for a relationship since his last partner etc.

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Justagirlwholovesaboy · 02/02/2019 01:38

Isn’t a dating app to have a date, not just sex? Ask him out, deserve more than bedroom dates

XOXOGOSSIPGIRL · 02/02/2019 01:42

Well that's what I presumed but you do get some small minded guys that I have spoken too who has stated only on here for sex so Hmmthat's why I'm questioning haha.

And you don't think me asking him out would scare him off?

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WH1SPERS · 02/02/2019 01:45

You are scared to ask him to go out on a date but you’ve had sex with him?

Justagirlwholovesaboy · 02/02/2019 01:45

Frankly if it scares him off then he doesn’t deserve you, would you really want to with someone who only wants sex?

XOXOGOSSIPGIRL · 02/02/2019 01:54

I know @WH1SPERS a bit of a double standard but I know what guys are like with commitment or even when a women mentions commitment it scares them! Hmm

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XOXOGOSSIPGIRL · 02/02/2019 01:55

@Justagirlwholovesaboy not really no Blush

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Justagirlwholovesaboy · 02/02/2019 01:56

Then ask him out! If he says no then he isn’t worth it, if he says yes then maybe this will become a musical 😂

XOXOGOSSIPGIRL · 02/02/2019 02:03

😂😂😂

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MissBehaving1000 · 02/02/2019 02:23

Admittedly I've had a drink but I really despair at these kind of posts.

I've been where you are... and it's fucking horrible. I learnt the hard way.

Do yourself a favour... no matter how good in bed he is, if you've not been out on a "proper date" then he ain't interested in nothing but the sex.

Put that on hold for a bit and I bet you won't hear from him for dust.

That's fine if you're after casual hook ups but from your post I gather you like him and would like more?

Make him work for it! That's what I learnt anyway...

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