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Why do I feel the need for revenge

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imgoodatbeingme · 01/02/2019 21:24

After 10 years of lying and cheating his way through out relationship my ex partner dropped it on me that he wants to be alone with his cat ! I've since found out he has been chatting to other women and even taken 2 out , why am I hell bent on revenge ?

OP posts:
NameChangeNugget · 01/02/2019 21:26

He’s your ex, moving on with your life rather than plotting revenge that he really won’t be arsed about would be your best strategy.

He sounds hideous

BumbleBeee69 · 01/02/2019 21:29

Because he ended it when really, you should have ended it long long ago OP. Flowers

Ozziewozzie · 01/02/2019 21:34

I know the feeling but truthfully, holding your head up high and cracking on with your life without him successfully is the biggest two fingers you can give him. Chances are his new conquests will fail possibly, meanwhile. You'll have your moral compass perfectly pointing in the right direction.....(opp direction to him) x

SuperSuperSuper · 01/02/2019 22:01

Live your life well OP. Act like you don't care.

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