Bored

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I think AIBU but I am so bored of my dh after 7 and a half years together.

I do 75% of the housework and a lot of childcare .

I love him but he genuinely bores me when we have time together. Not sure if I need to make more of an effort or I need to accept we are done

Is the problem that he's become boring/in a rut? Or that he doesn't pull his weight domestically?

Both of these things can be addressed if you love him as you say.

I think it is more being in a rut. Thanks for your reply, I think we will have to work on our relationship

Is there any other reason apart from the above written to make you feel you're pretty much done?

I suggest you communicate with your DH, find out if anything is bothering him that he's bottling up, or has he always been like this?

You can try working on it in case it is a rut but in reality if he bores you now, think how bad it will be when older

Thanks all - I have some thinking to do. He is a lot quieter than me and sometimes it really bothers me