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lewis754 · 28/01/2019 19:01

My girlfriend works in retail and inevitably has to interact with her colleagues to get the work done, but every time I pick her up from work she'd rather me pick her up from round be workplace cause "it's easier for me to drive out than to turn around" she also mentions this boys name quite a lot when I ask how her day was or asks her what she done that day, she has him on social media and they have messaged before but it was work related, I'm just worried and always want to check up on her, not sure what to do

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showmeshoyu · 28/01/2019 19:06

Simple decision tree: Has she actually done anything to make you distrust her?

Yes. Work on moving on with her or split up and get some help for your anxiety.

No. Get some help for your anxiety.

lewis754 · 28/01/2019 19:15

When we first got together 2 years ago, she did kiss someone else in a club when she was drunk. That's the only time she's been unfaithful that I know of, were always together. I do track her phone so I know she's not anywhere she shouldn't be, even though she says she's somewhere but it says on the "map" that she's half a mile away, not sure if gps things can be wrong. Other than that she's never away from me apart from when we work

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showmeshoyu · 28/01/2019 19:17

I do track her phone

FFS. And you consider that normal? Does she know you're tracking it?

MrsBertBibby · 28/01/2019 19:19

You can't be tracking her, she's not your car or your phone.

If you are real, you need to get serious help. And refrain from relationships until you have.

lewis754 · 28/01/2019 19:23

Yes she does know, it was an agreement a long time ago to know where we are, but she isn't too bothered. Of course this is real I just wanted to get some advice, clearly I'm paranoid or possibly she could be doing something. It's the same lad that keeps getting mentioned and she said she doesn't realise speaking about him so much, it's frustrating

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