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Sammiejo12 · 28/01/2019 07:34

Morning

Met a seemingly "normal" guy through bumble, been on a couple of dates, all very lovely and things are always mentioned on his side about doing this that and the other but the last couple of times we've been out it's been me that's suggested it.

I did approach the subject that I can't always be the one suggesting dates and he agreed. He half heartedly said he would take me out to his local, but nothing has come of it....

He's always so positive when we speak, replies straight away never makes excuses, I get long replies and we are always chatting for hours when we meet but this lack of plans is making me wobble a bit and thinking he's just not that into me.... he does ask if I've been somewhere and then Says "we'll go", or "I'm on it".

He did sAy he spent last week at work as he works with a USA company and the time difference means he's there till reAlly late and he looses track of time...

He does seem sincere and honest and genuinely interested in me.... could it be he is just busy with work? And I need not to worry?

What do you recon?

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funicorn · 28/01/2019 07:49

Some men are just crap at thinking of things to do ! This is the situation I had with my partner initially who later admitted he was like that - couldn't think of good things like me . If you suggest things with your guy and he is happy to do it /turns up etc then fair enough .If you like him then see how it goes .

dilly123 · 28/01/2019 07:49

Seasoned online dater here...

Personally I'd step back a little & see if he takes the lead a bit more.. you don't want a long term thing with someone who's half hearted about it. If he's into you he will want to see you..

Good luck Thanks

Sammiejo12 · 28/01/2019 09:44

Yeah that's the thing I'm all excited and want to say "what you think about this, or doing that etc.etc"

I am NO good at this dating malarkey.

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