He won’t leave

[Iska]

I’m in a really difficult situation I have a 4 year old daughter with my partner and we have lived together for almost 6 years, the house is rented and in my name only I am the main bill payer as partner has mental health problems and bad legs

Any how we’ve been going round in circles for quite some tone and I’ve been unhappy for around 8 months around November time there was a big argument and things have never been the same we have tried to make ago of things but I’m not happy and I can’t hide the fact. I’m devestated I fell like this but it’s him that made me feel this way, I have asked him to leave on numberous occasions and made it clear I no longer wish to be with him, he’s a narcissist and makes me feel this is all my fault!

How can I get him to leave I’m at the end of my teather!!

Call the police and tell them you need assistance in getting your abusive partner out of YOUR home. As soon as he's out the door, change the locks.

What Aqua said. He has been told frequently

Call police and have him removed.

im so sorry for the awful situation you are in, if there is aggression, physical or mental abuse you can get an occupation order against him, you will need to see a solicitor about it, or when he goes out lock the doors and put his belongings outside. another thing you can do is hand your notice in and rent somewhere else. i do hope you get something sorted, take care x

Personally I'd give notice and move somewhere else without him.

I refuse to leave my home I’ve lived here all my life it was my parents home that’s not an option,

I feel sorry for him as he has nowhere to go either but instead of saving money to find somewhere he just blows it and thinks it’s ok she’ll come round I’ve said il have to ring the police and he laughs and says go on then at least il have somewhere to stay but I don’t want to have my daughters dad arrested for not leaving there’s no abuse we just do not get on that well anymore he’s lazy

I’ve come home from work today hoovered, wash dishes, washing, ironed, bathed me and my daughter and made our supper

Well he has done f all all day!

You'll have to go the legal route then. Give him a set amount of time to move out in, and put him out at that point.

Yep go the legal route, you can get him removed especially if you are the sole tenant.

So don’t call the police? Does anyone know how long legal route will take? And does anyone know if I call the police to have him removed while my daughter is out the house will they contact social services? I just don’t want that added worry

If you aren't married and he's not on the tenancy you can just change the locks when he's out.