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It's broken down completely now

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unhappy13 · 27/01/2019 02:13

I have finally spoken to my parents (only briefly) sort of told them going to explain the rest tomorrow, it's definitely over I don't want to be in this relationship any longer, I explained this to him last week he took
His bags for all of 12 hours then came
Back and refused to leave even though the house is in my name he knows I'm surrounded by his family
Who would make it extremely difficult, I have also got a job interview Tuesday I'm
Hoping this is a start to a good week! As I feel
So sorry for my child all they have saw this week is me crying and upset. They have been so lovely and even said let's just go away mom for week dad might leave then. Poor child I've gotta do this for us both now

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MadeForThis · 27/01/2019 02:32

Good luck

Feckers2018 · 27/01/2019 02:35

Do what ypu feel is right.

unhappy13 · 27/01/2019 02:50

Thanks both, it's been so hard , in my last post the girl who gave me advice was so helpful and I thought there was no way out! Made the first step now hopefully it won't be long before it gets better

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jessstan2 · 27/01/2019 02:52

Aw bless you Flowers, it's so hard atm. Will get better.

Good luck with the job interview.

unhappy13 · 27/01/2019 02:57

Thanks jessstan2 , it's all for my
Son! I've stayed for 12 years for him
And I've realised now he doesn't need us together he needs us happy, this week has been a living hell, he won't go he left for 12 hours then came
Back and refused to leave! Hes told
Me he don't care how unhappy I am he's not leaving but I was so scared of what everyone else would think I've had a bit of a break down yday and today but finally spoke to my mom who wanted me to go there straight away but my son was asleep but going tomorrow something has to change

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unhappy13 · 01/02/2019 17:16

I got the job! And I've left since last Sunday stayed at my moms this week I am
Going to go back home by end of next week I think once all his stuff has gone. I've been very productive this week looked at private rents.. but also went to council and applied to move and bid on new properties. I need to go back home but I'm
Afraid il be living in a gold fish bowl.. but sleeping on air bed me and my 10 year old ain't ideal is it 🙈

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Dragongirl10 · 01/02/2019 21:08

Well done op, congratulations on your new job!!

Dunin · 01/02/2019 22:15

Congrats on the job!

unhappy13 · 01/02/2019 22:51

Thanks both! Hope it's a start to good things to come! He's taken the
Car so I've gotta arrange transport but even though I've been so upset all week! I can see a light I feel like a huge weight is off my
Shoulders! But I'm just so worried about all his family getting involved when I go back home!

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