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Uncaring Bf

32 replies

aceaceace · 26/01/2019 02:35

Hi, I’ve posted before but namechanged. I’m lying awake thinking about things.
When id been with my OH for about a year (this was Months ago ) I went to an event near him, think big concert type thing. He invited me to stop at his (usually a 20 min train ride away) n we said how I’d get in if he was asleep and all that. Anyway it got to the end of the night and the last train into this big city was cancelled. It was horrid everyone stranded and night busses very full. I ended up alone at the bus stop and long story short got hit by accident
BF was angry with me for being home late when I got in, angry for making noise in thetrying to clean up a cut head at 2 am I’d been stranded for hours and finally found a way home which left me with a 40 min walk to his I was very scared. I can’t get over his reaction months later and even thou he sed sorry i can’t ger over it.
Any similar exp and what did u do

OP posts:
cantbeatfreshsheets · 26/01/2019 21:27

Get rid. I would anyway. Xx

ree348 · 26/01/2019 21:53

Walk away from him now. He's very selfish and im sure if you think about it there have been other 'selfish' moments too.

Something similar happened to me too with an ex and I wasted years with him and ignored all the warning signs. Since then I've learnt to trust my instinct.

Walk away now rather than years down the line.

giantnannyknickers · 27/01/2019 07:35

Yeah really think you should seriously consider investing more time in this relationship. It doesn't sound worth it to me.

bastardkitty · 27/01/2019 07:43

He's not a brilliant person. You know exactly what kind of person he is. It doesn't matter why he is like that. He twists the truth. You don't have to stay and he is never going to acknowledge that he is cruel, self-absorbed, heartless and defensive. You know who he is. Why don't you trust yourself and LTB?

toffeeapple123 · 27/01/2019 09:41

ElizabethMainwaring
NameChangeNugget

I didn't find it confusing.

She's clearly feeling the way she is because it's not a good relationship and he doesn't sound like a caring bf as the title of her post suggests.

It's not rocket science.

crimsonlake · 27/01/2019 10:52

Just try reading back your own posts...If someone else had written them what would you advise them? Look, you have already built up lots of resentment against him so why on earth are you even considering staying with him?? Do you really need a man that much?

AtrociousCircumstance · 27/01/2019 10:55

He’s an arsehole, and you’re an absolute mug for staying with him after that. Muster up enough self respect to leave him.

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