My partner smokes cannabis, everyday, i knew that he smoked cannabis when i met him but i didn't relise how much nor did i relise the withdrawl symtoms when he don't have any he is snapy, agressive (not pysically) and agitated,he can be so hard to live with, anything i say about it, he says i'm trying to control him that i want to change him he smoked it when i met him so i always knew, which is true but i didn't relise how bad the mood sings are, he's not lazy he goes to work everyday but he finds it hard to hold a job, he jumps from job to job and it can be so stressful, he helps with the bills and always trys to push me to be better, but the anger issues have taking its toll on me, when we argue he says nasty things to me like im a waste of space, i'm fat and ugly, i have two kids from a past relationship that love him and i love his kids he also has from a past relationship, i find i have become very defensive in how i speak now, which he tells me, he talks to me the way he does because how i talk to him, he smokes weed about 20years now, his mam n dad and brother smoke it aswell as his aunt, uncle and cousins, its all around him and doesn't see a problem, i told him how i feel and he said, he is not a walk over that i can't control his life an he won't take ultimatums, he says he loves me and that im ungreatful that he does everything for me and he sick of me trying to control him, i love him but don't no how to go about it.