I met a guy 15 years ago in a chat room. We became good friends and chatted via text 3/4 times a week. He lives 200 miles away. We did lose contact for a while, but over the last 5 years, we have become closer, we finally met 3 years ago, and now he comes to stay at my home every other weekend, or in the week, depending on our work. We go out for meals, walks, day trips, and yes, we sleep together. About 18 months ago, just after we started sleeping together, he rang me in a drunken state telling me how wonderful this one girl was that he had met in the gym. I was crushed. We remained friends, and he still visited, but I stopped the sex. I suggested he ask her out, which he did, she rejected him and disappeared. He was gutted, and started paying me attention again. So here I am, sleeping with him, him suggesting we are heading to be a couple ...
Last week he left his laptop on his emails and nipped out...I shudnt have looked...but there it was, messeges from her and his replies. The one I read was him offering to pay for her to go skiing with him!
U can imagine my rage, but I casually asked him does he ever see her. His answer was, maybe once in 5 months, but he dont care, shes old news and he hasnt had a text or email either.
What do I do?