I’m not sure how to or if I have started a thread but i really need some sort of advice/help.. so my boyfriend of 5 years broke up with me within day then moved out. He has cheated before and when that happened we broke up but we have been back together about a year and everything has been good, we were speaking about having another child together (my daughter has just turned 4 this month) and he was very keen then a few months later he came out with ‘I’m depressed I need to work on myself’ (btw I actually am depressed and I know what it’s like I told him if he was I’d help him through it all even tho I didn’t have any)but what I want to ask it. Do I try with him? Well I know I shouldn’t so really what should I do to not feel like this?