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Relationship ending with a child

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Sophhzz · 22/01/2019 23:33

I’m not sure how to or if I have started a thread but i really need some sort of advice/help.. so my boyfriend of 5 years broke up with me within day then moved out. He has cheated before and when that happened we broke up but we have been back together about a year and everything has been good, we were speaking about having another child together (my daughter has just turned 4 this month) and he was very keen then a few months later he came out with ‘I’m depressed I need to work on myself’ (btw I actually am depressed and I know what it’s like I told him if he was I’d help him through it all even tho I didn’t have any)but what I want to ask it. Do I try with him? Well I know I shouldn’t so really what should I do to not feel like this?

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springydaff · 23/01/2019 03:29

So sorry Sophhzz. Flowers

No, don't try with him. He's done it once and he's probably doing it again right now. He'll only go on doing the same over and over.

From what others say who have been in your position, no contact is the way to go. It helps you heal to cut him off as much as possible.

I hope others come along to give you some advice and support Flowers

MumsyJ · 23/01/2019 04:09

Oh OP, so sorry this has happened. Please don't bother with him anymore. You forgave and took him back previously, and this is how he repays you?
Just stay strong for your DD's sake as well as yours. Time will heal whatever pain the loser has caused you.Flowers X

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