My husband is a gamer when I meant him and the first year of our relationship he never played in the computer but when we moved In together he gradually started to play games on the computer
I don't have a problem with it at first as it was little time but we have been together nearly 6 years now and he is on it quite a bit
I have approached him and he says I should get a hobbit/interest too
How I make him feel guilty going on it
I try to pull back and not react when he does but I feel myself get a mood on
It was my birthday yesterday and he had taken the day off I went to work in the morning and when I come back he had been playing on it which is fine and then we went out for lunch and did a few errands together but in the evening after dinner he kept moaning there was nothing on tv
I looked for a film on Netflix and we watched that
But after he said I'm going on the computer for a bit as my daughter had a row with her b/f and I said I was just going to her room to make sure she was ok
I came down and he was on it
I opened a bottle of wine and sat there alone drinking my wine (on my birthday ) while he had headphones on gaming
After just under 2 hours I went to bed he came to bed with me but I was just in a bad mood
I haven't said anything as I know he will get all defensive and make me feel guilty
I said to him I am thinking of joining a gym to do in the evenings and he seemed keen as he will feel then he can game while I'm there
I don't know is it me ? Over reacting
I just feel that my birthday night of all nights
Do I mention it and cause a row or leave it and get over it ?
I don't even want to join a gym but feel if I'm occupied in the evenings he will cause less friction