Ok this is a bit of a rant....
I have been with DP for 17 months. He was with his ex for 22 yrs and they have 2 kids together one now 22 the other 13. last night there was a bomb scare where he works so he called the ex to see if he could park the car near hers, over an hour later he called me to say he had had to move the car and once he had driven round for ages he ended up parking where she lived, so called and asked if 13 yr old could come and see him at bus stop of course she came too. I asked him why he hadn't called me first as there was potential that he could have been in danger and why he called her before me. He said he had called her from his mobile, turns out he called her from work before leaving to move car. I came second in the calls.
He called me a while later and said he would call me when he had eaten, after another hour i called him and he said "oh sorry i didn't call I ate then i got watching tv and forgot about calling you" needless to say i got the hump and hung up. I am 25 weeks pregnant with his baby and I feel I am playing second best to his ex who he left 4 yrs ago for a woman he met and then married, which broke up after a yr cos she was cheating on him.
He says I am being ubnreasonable, I have had 2 hours sleep which was very restless and am now on brink of tears. I am trying to hold it together as i have my DS (9) to look after and also I am wondering am I being unreasonable or is he? Why should I be left feeling second best cos he phoned her before me??????????