I'm completely baffled by last nights events with my partner. I feel like he was possessed. We were at an event that I'd organised with around 200 people, all my family friends, girlfriends, work colleagues etc
It was an all day/night event and he arrived around 9 o'clock after he had been to football and meet his friends. We chatted normally I knew he was drunk, I was busy organising/over seeing things so I left him to it. I walked in the room at around 12 and he was dancing with my friend, I saw him very clearly lean in to kiss her and her pull away. This was in the centre of the event, steps away from my mother, my sister and my closest friends sitting at a table.I walked over calmly and asked him to come outside. When he came outside he was completely gone, he couldn't see me, did not know who I was and couldn't make sense of what I was saying. I told him he was drunk and needed to go home, I told him he had tried to kiss my friend, he said a few nonsense words and walked straight back in over to her gropped her and tried again. This was in plain view of me and everyone else. It was horrifying. The rest of the night was spent trying to get him home. He made no sense at all at any point. He woke up this morning with no recollection and vomited when I told him what happened. We have been together 6 years, he has always been adoring and focussed only on me (sometimes too much!) and has no idea what or why this happened.
I feel betrayed, humiliated and completely baffled. My friends and family are all aware of it and no one can make sense of it. It feels like he was possessed. I absolutely do not want to split up with him but feel like I have absolutely no choice. LTB?