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Feeling hurt and deflated

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TatlN · 19/01/2019 21:36

I messaged on here a week ago on advice to leave a relationship that was starting to become possessive and controlling. I did end the relationship and haven’t heard any more from him in the week from the split. I know it was the right decision but I feel really hurt and deflated as in the short time together he told me how much he loved me , how special I am, wants to marry me , move in together, be with me forever etc and how he loves my kids. I know this was probably only lip service but I just can’t believe how someone can be so fake and it’s hit home that this was all probably a load of lies. I created a fake POF account to see if he was back on there and that very day of the split sure enough he was. I am due to start the freedom Programme on Monday as this is the second abusive/controlling relationship I have been in which I am hoping will help me. How can I get over all this?

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FuckYouChrisAndThatHorse · 20/01/2019 08:18

Give yourself some time. How he treats you is no reflection on what you are worth. He is moving on quickly because you have seen through him and shown strong boundaries. He wants someone who he can push around.

It hurts to leave any relationship - even a bad one - give yourself some time to grieve for it.

You’re going to be okay. You are making positive steps, the Freedom Programme will help you make healthy decisions and recognise bad patterns.

You’re doing amazingly, even though it doesn’t feel like it right now. Be kind to yourself Flowers

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