I'm thinking it's time to leave my marriage.. if there is such a thing! My husband is just getting more and more horrible towards me and the kids. He shouts, calls me names, puts holes in the walls (not often but..) and now has started threatening me (although not regularly) it's still happening. We have a teen (his) and a baby (ours). There's just arguments a lot of the time, he says he's always stressed. We're very seldom intimate! I just don't know what to do! He can be a very nasty person (outside of our marriage) but now he's just become such a horrible person to be around! He calls names like it's NOTHING! Even to his child! "You lazy fuck" because the bins weren't taken out!! Or I'm "a stupid bastard" because I let him go up to bed without telling him his phone was left on the couch. I've just come to my wits end, I can't take anymore. I don't want to finish our marriage but I can't have our kids around it anymore! My priorities just aren't the same now we have a baby! I cant ignore it...Any advice is really appreciated!!